Archive for October 2014

today is National Cat Day…. which my cat believes is every day.

our biggest show of the year!

our biggest show of the year!

I hate it when hip kids say “This is my favorite holiday” and decorate their house in Dia De Los Muertos stuff without knowing it has nothing to do with Halloween.. Bitch I was born in the dark. Everyday is halloween to us monsters.

local show halloween night

local show halloween night

Today is my one year wedding anniversary with Brea.

Today is my one year wedding anniversary with Brea.

Our story is your typical story which spans a decade before even getting together

Actually it isn’t typical at all. I am lucky to have found my soul mate in this evil world. In a place filled with static and noise, where everyone is entitlled and cheats each other in both business and matters of the heart… I know that I am with who I need to be.

I am not easy to be with. I’m sure there are plenty of exes and former bandmates that will tell you that. I don’t have the social skills to be nice anymore and I often lose interest with everyone. It’s sort of like dealing with House M.D. or Hank Moody only not attractive and way less drugs.

But for some reason we work. Brea challanges me. She makes me be better, and when I’m too cocky she will take me down a peg or two. When I am defeated she brings me back. When I come up with an insanely stupid idea she makes it real. She pushes me to finish what I start and calls bullshit when I don’t.

There have been many trials. We have come through them all. We had to sever some ties to make sure our projects stayed what we needed them to be. People have tried to come between us whether they realized it or not. With every bridge burned others were made stronger, new ones were forged, I am sure the future poses more obstacles for us but as long as there is love, punk rock and each other, I’m pretty sure we can make it through anything.

I know in our “scene” it isn’t popular to say you believe in a higher power. My relationship with my wife is nothing short of divine intervention.she was put in my path at just the right place and the right time. I feel like a penguin who found another penguin on a chicken ranch. (dont think too much on that horrible analogy) Everything just works.

Excuse my rambling. I’m gonna go kiss my wife.